How to Tell When a Relationship is Over

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Forget where I got this link from...

Anyway, do these scenarios look familiar? ;)

How Boyish or Girlish Are You?

You Are 40% Boyish and 60% Girlish

You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch. Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes. You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them. You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be.

How Boyish or Girlish Are You?

Hahaha.... the result can't even display the picture of a person with such characteristics. Who wants? :P

Funny Blog Comments Exchanges

The following two blog comments exchanges made me laugh so hard... LOL (sorry guy n gal mentioned here... just a joke, nothing serious, ok?)

Blog A

Gal: using pool table to xian char bor siboh? first time i see this kind of strategy. haha... not bad not bad. you are improving....

Guy: Oh dun fret girl, u will be invited too!!! hahaha....

Gal: i prefer BIGGER BALLS. like bowling.


Blog B

Guy: Interesting... I doubt u r afraid of marriage coz i m sure u will wanna marry the bf whom u love. Kekeke.... Maybe I will try it. See how.

Gal: "Maybe I will try it. See how." Hmmn... try what? Try to make Bee marry? ;)

Guy: Oh shucks... misunderstanding! I meant to say I will try the "Keys to your heart" thingy.

Twinkle Twinkle Little Stars - funny version

One of my friends sent me this "Twinkle Twinkle Little Stars" audio file recently. I was wondering why she sent me that till I played the song... I couldn't stop laughing. LOL



Click here to download 'twinkle-twinkle-wav'

How Weird Are You?

You Are 30% Weird

Not enough to scare other people... But sometimes you scare yourself.

How Weird Are You?

HAHAHAHA... true, true, true

Big Guys Behaving Like Little Kids

"Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out."
Proverbs 17:14



One funny thing I observed recently is that we adults can still behave like little kids sometimes when come to friendship/relationship.

I remember when I was young, my friends and I would say to each other when we had conflicts, "I don't friend you!" Then we would not talk to each other for some time. But when one party initiates to say something, the other party would respond and both would "friend" each other again. :)

I didn't know that big guys can also behave like little kids sometimes towards their female friends. But for them, in addition to saying unpleasant things when angry, they would "excommunicate" their female friends by de-linking their blogs which they used to visit frequently from theirs. However, when the other party initiates a conversation after some time, they would make peace with each other again. Isn't this similar to what little kids do? ;)

But I think such guys are better off than those who hold a grudge forever.

Can Long Distance Relationships Really Work?

Yes, it works... that's my belief since 2 years ago when I started my first blog. Actually, I have so many blogs by now and each have different focus. :P

What I can say is committed Long Distance Relationship (LDR) or Online Relationship (OR) is not for everyone. The couple in such relationship need special capacity, and have special quality in them for it to work. Qualities such as faith, trust, hope, peseverence, patience, creativiy, etc are very important for such a couple. That means they really love each other for who they are without the physical distractions.

It is also my belief that if it works well online/distance for a couple, it will work even better when they finally marry each other and live together for good.

The following are some interesting comments:

Can Long Distance Relationships Really Work?

Distance is not the end of the world in a relationship

Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.

Although you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationship at times, hold fast and trust your heart!

I, like you, truly believe that love & relationships are what make your life special, and that ones built on love & understanding are always worth preserving, regardless of the miles that may separate two people.

- Stephen Blake

Forum on Creative ways to make a long distance relationship work

but here is the key I believe ... we do twice a week devotions together (in addition to our personal daily devotions) ... we read Bible togteher and spend couple hours in front of God ... not seeking God to bring us together ... but simply praying and doing devotions ...

we also have decieded that we will not seek God to tell us or Him to bring us together ... we have left to up to Him ... and we both trust that if tomorrow for some reason God would tell us "give this person up to me" we both have hearts to say "Lord may your will be done" ...

- Post #: 1 - by GraceK

Most of what I will say has been said... the trust and communication. That is so true. Those really are the two most important factors. Make sure you talk everyday and know what's going on in each other's lives. In a way... I kind of think LDR's have advantages in this area. When all you can do is talk, you get *really* good at communicating. It is different when you're together. There's a lot more distractions. Enjoy this time as the time you get to spend really getting to know the person on the inside. Their thoughts and hopes and dreams.

Reading a book or doing a devotional is also a wonderful thing to do. You can each read it and then discuss it. It'll bring up a lot of topics that you might never have discussed otherwise. It's good stuff.

Someone said that watch a movie together apart idea... we actually did that before. haha. We did it a couple times. It was kinda fun. Start the movie at the same time and you get to experience it together.

- Post #: 8 - starvin.artist.gurl

Tips for Long Distance Relationships